This post is a tad late today, but I have an awesome excuse: I was playing with all of my childhood [ahem] toys in my parents’ attic. We’re talking Barbies and their clothing from the ’70s (I think they were hand-me-downs from my cousins, soda shoppes, multiple dollhouses and furniture, pieces that I made myself…and they were all wrapped in at least seven layers of paper towels. ‘Cause I was afraid all the plastic and felt blankies would break in all of that cardboard. But it wasn’t until the dozen porcelain dolls made an appearance that Peej felt a little fear.
It’s a good thing I have a daughter- ’cause these toys are all coming back to Chicago with us. They’re for Nora. Obviously.
We had the easiest trip out East. Seriously. Saturday morning, as soon as N.J. woke up, we hit the road- for 10.5 hours. Nora was a gem. (Peej got a little cranky.) Between her bag o’ toys, bag o’ books, and music o’ kids, she probably had the best trip of us all. (And P.J. and I got our first taste of what traveling with kids’ music is like. It was…okay. I mean, if she can tolerate Sirius XM’s Hair Nation for an hour or so, who am I to complain?)
And we met the nicest people. Really. Every single person we met in transit (with the exception of a BMW SUV driver- you know who you are), be it at the Ohio rest stop or the Upstate NY Days Inn, was pleasant and friendly and told us how cute Nora was. (Maybe the trick was in bringing Nora.) Either way, it was kinda cool. And unusual for holiday transit. As for the Days Inn, it boasted the most helpful folks…and the thinnest walls and floors in the nation. The couple staying on the floor above us had an excellent time. That’s all I will say about that. Except to add that I almost applauded when the festivities ended…until I heard the dude walk to the bathroom and pee. However, I was the only affected Schoeny: Big and Little passed out as soon as their heads hit the queen bed and pack n’ play, respectively. (And frankly, I don’t think they would have noticed had the sleeping arrangements been reversed.)
The next morning, after saying goodbye to the ten or so folks with whom we [Nora] had endeared ourselves, we drove the remaining four hours and reached my parents’ house. A Narnia of home-cooked meals, soft beds, hot water, many arms with which to hug and hold Nora…and zero people peeing audibly. At least not strangers peeing audibly. Nora has adjusted nicely to being spoiled rotten, overfed her favorite foods, being gifted with No Particular Reason Presents, and- her personal favorite- not being alone in a backwards-facing car seat for hours at a stretch.
Livin’ well.
As for me, I’m reverting back to my favorite At Home activities; among them emptying, cleaning and organizing kitchen cabinets (and amassing a collection of expired medications dating back to the early ’00s,) and making my mother laugh like a loon. For instance, she placed a pair of vibrating, fleece slippers on my feet, causing me to walk around like an errant robot, destroying fields and buildings in my path (and, obviously, dancing like a robot).
Also, while using her face wash- which is remarkably wonderful- I was overcome with the urge to cleanse my head by splashing upwards, a la in the adverts. Guess what happens when you do that? Everything gets soaked. ‘Cept your actual face. But my point is- my Mom has really nice bath products. Also, expired meds.
Here’s what else she has: A BIRTHDAY TODAY. Today we’re celebrating by trying to not mess up her house with Nora’s stuff, my toys, random laundry, snacks, etc.,and then we’re going to the Festival of Trees at the Berkshire Museum. (I guarantee my Mom wouldn’t have cleared time in her day for it unless her beloved N. Janie was going to be in town…but I’ll take it, regardless.) Hopefully she’ll let me bring her out to lunch. Perhaps watch an old movie later on. Definitely have another cabinet-cleanin’. ‘Cause- Good God, Mom and Dad.
So happy birthday to the best Momma I have- and the only one I’d choose, if I had the choice. Which I don’t. But I’d choose her, anyhow. And that’s what counts.
Anyone wanna go celebrate and play dolls?
You can’t touch anything. But you can point. Gently. From the other room. And then you have to go away.
It’ll be fun.
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