Just so you’re all aware- September is 10pm Bedtime Month. This isn’t a national thing or even a local thing, overmuch. Okay, maybe really locally, like the third floor of my house.
This is why we’ve been colossal lame-os for- oh, the last week. We eventually got tired of being tired all the time. (Initially, the proposal was for 9pm Bedtime Month but, as was pointed out to us- Thanks, Mom- 9pm is an awfully ambitious bedtime for people who like to do things such as eat dinner and acknowledge the other party in their marriage. And it is a party.) It’s been going well, insofar as we’ve actually conked out on the couch at 9:30 a couple of times and disregarded it entirely Saturday night. (12:30- woo! Take off the lampshade, P.J.!)
Also, are you aware of how much time is wasted in that hour after dinner/kiddo’s bath/kiddo’s bedtime/hosing down of the homestead? That’s usually when we find ourselves flopping on furniture and whining about how TIRED we are and how much we have to DO. That usually kills about an hour. Ironically, this was the hour that we reserved for Getting Things Done. Most likely, we’ll ultimately find that we really don’t have anything that we need to be doing, ever. That would be great.
Here were our obstacles and strengths: I don’t like to go to bed super early ’cause I don’t want to miss anything…but I’m quite good at writing something down and sticking to it. P.J. doesn’t believe in “bedtime” if there’s stuff to do like rewiring the downstairs or cleaning the gutters…but if there’s any type of media present and a couch or two, he can be out like a light in ten seconds. So we’ve started watching movies in our bedroom around 9pm, knowing full well that I’ll feel like it’s a special occasion and P.J. will be lulled to sleep by the end of the opening sequence. Especially if it’s subtitled.
This past weekend was one of enforced hibernation, which we thought would go hand in hand with the early bedtime thing. (I can see our list of pals slooooowly dropping away. Sigh.)
We organized all of our vinyl albums- no small task, as we’ve probably acquired a few hundred by this point- into stuff we need to have in the living room with the record player (Boston, Frank Sinatra, Burns & Allen Radio Hour, etc.) and stuff that could hang out in the newly available rec room off of the family room/Nora’s Zone O’ Toys (Christmas stuff, a positively alarming amount of Julie London records, etc). Shelves were hung- finally- and yet more mirrors now grace our walls, nooks, hallways, etc. Little known fact: Schoenys cannot walk by a mirror without turning and peeking at their reflection. True story. They can carry on convos and even be surreptitious about it- but no reflective surface can be passed without even a cursory glance. This includes storefront windows and stainless steel fridges. The little one now winks at herself.
She gets that from her Dad, like everything else on her face.
The only time we left our property was when we had definite outdoorsy destination in mind- no more than ten minutes away, walking. Turns out we didn’t need to venture all that far. Over Labor Day weekend other holidays were celebrated: The 100th anniversary of Our Lady of Mercy, the gold domed church up the block that celebrates each mass afterwards with amazing Mexican and Filipino food on its stoop, and the Central American parade that went by our block- not to be confused with last month’s Ecuadorian parade nor next week’s Mexican Independence Day parade. Seriously, it’s been a nonstop march of crepe paper and mariachis all summer. It is THE BEST.
We took Nora over to the church’s street fest for a lunch of flautas and arroz con pollo- and to allow yet more people to say hello to our “little boy.” (Actual question- is pink a traditional boy color in Hispanic cultures? I would truly be unsurprised to find out that this is so.) Some teenagers performed a nifty Filipino bamboo dance…followed up by six year-olds dancing to that traditional tune, ‘Pokerface’ by Lady Gaga.
And a really nice gal approached me with an obvious case of mistaken identity (at least I think so- my pregnancy brain should all but be dissipated by now, yes?) and asked about my life, and so-and-so, and was I still doing whatnot? So, another burning question: is it more polite to vaguely play along in these situations, or to bluntly admit that I don’t know her from Joe- or José – but that the other gal sounded really great? It’s true. This Other Me apparently works with children in theatre- both things that I have done, sure- but she somehow seemed more altruistic and giving.
Because I totally went along with it. And when she told me that my son was lovely…
…I thanked her.
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