For one brief moment, even before I opened my eyes, I thought I was at the beach. Sure, it was 6am in muggy, slightly overcast Chicago- but the air had that heavy beach quality.
Nora clearly felt it, too. That’s why, when she joined me in bed, she fell back to sleep. The sea air does that.
All morning long, even as I looked into my backyard and peeked around to Kedzie (most definitely not the bastion of seaside quietude), I could not be convinced that it wasn’t a “beach day.” I could even smell the salt.
Perhaps something has happened to the Morton salt factory downtown and that is certainly something to look into- but for now I’ll just pretend that I am a coastal being. And not a landlocked Midwesterner tendin’ the Back 40. Don’t get me wrong- I really dig our lake. And I never knew how hard I’d fall for a small, Wisconsin town and kayaking in its picturesque waters. (Also- apropos of nothing water related- I really and rather inexplicably adore Indiana. That was surprising as well.)
But nothing compares to a body of water comprised of salt. Maybe I just like to be buoyant.
And speaking of the Back 40, we’ve [P.J. has] spent a ton of time priming the yard on Troy Street. He’s seriously so good. Of course, he’ll tell our friends and family that we work out back and we’ve figured out where to place such unruly beasts as the Hosta plant (seriously, they’re a bit intimidating)- but he’s just being a good sharer. As I’ve told him many times, the garden is his. But the yard is mine.
It’s like that part in Dirty Dancing: “Our Baby is going to change the world.” “And what’s Lisa going to do?” “Oh, Lisa’s going to decorate it.”
I’m the Lisa to his Baby.
And baby, can he garden! So far, he’s managed to keep alive the following: lilacs, roses, hosta, lilies, tulips, azaleas, holly, clematis, peonies, strawberries, raspberries, tomatoes, peppers, grapevine ivy, lavender, geraniums, petunias, impatiens, a pear tree, a birch, a maple, a slew of decorative grasses, and a jade plant. But the jury’s still out on that last one. It looks like it went a few rounds with a Hosta.
And me? Oh, I pretend to garden. I am excellent at pretending to garden. Gimme some gardening gloves and potting soil and I will poke, water, and stomp around the backyard like a true [five year-old] professional. I have no green thumb. I have a black thumb. Really, a black stump of a hand. (Which sounds terrible.)
I over-love. I’m taking copious notes on my gardening style, because these are traits I fear will transfer over to my parenting skills. Really. I just can’t leave the darned plants alone. If Peej asks me to water them (which he has sorta ceased doing, lately), I’ll waterwaterwater them like it’s my sole mission on Earth. Or- I’ll forget about them. For weeks. (Which I can’t imagine reflecting on my parenting style, overmuch.) Or I’ll prod them. And move them. And smother them (with love.)
P.J. is kind. He tells me that I’m a GREAT gardener, that I’m doing JUST FINE. He gave me the job of potting some flowers in the backyard…and now the yard is covered with more potting soil than could ever be in a planter. And potting soil is NOT cheap. (Nor are any of the materials that I squander with my over-loving.) But I needed extra soil to get the darned plants to stand straight! They kept giving up and flopping to the side like wilty little children having tantrums. I showed them! (Some lost their heads. This was unavoidable.)
I swear I am good with kids.
I was, however, clutch at placing backyard-y type furniture. That black, wrought-iron glider between the trees? That was all me. The big, stripey hammock (thanks, Nat!) swaying by the back brick wall of the house? Yep. As was the fabulous patio set with green paisley umbrella that may be in the mail as we speak. (Thanks for nothing, Home Depot. I don’t mean that. I love you.)
And just wait for the fairy lights. And the Tiki torches. And the miniature Enchanted Forest’s worth of garden creatures: the bunnies, the frog prince, the helpful gnome, the decapitated turtle (always a big hit. P.J. has promised to “see what he can do” about that one.)
After all of this “gardening,” I was fully covered in potting soil, poorly applied sunscreen and a few other questionable substances. So I took a shower with the windows open and lights off. I pretended that it was the outdoor shower in Cape Cod- the one we’d look forward to all day, to rinse off the salt and sunshine and stickiness, the one that was a private oasis of cool water, ocean breezes, heavy scents of roses and food being placed out on the deck. The shower in which you were rarely alone- swimsuits on, of course, this IS a family blog- and would have to fight one’s sisters for the Dove shampoo and the single towel not covered in tree bark. It was so pleasant an experience that sometimes we’d finish a shower, jump back into the ocean and then barge into someone else’s shower moments later.
My shower at home was good. Not as good as the one in Onset, MA. (But very few nouns are as good here as they are in Onset, MA.)
I’m grateful to be going in August. And I’m thankful for the lovely home we’re creating here in Chicago. And I’m indebted to those who protect all of these special places…
…And allow me to live the kinda lifestyle where I get to blog about the difficulty of potting soil.
Which is seriously still everywhere.
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