How on Earth has it been seven weeks since Nora arrived and filled my dryer with hundreds of miniature pastel socks? (They’re printed with Mary-Janes on the toes- she has about fifteen different colors, quite a feat. HAH.)
Other big changes: our upstairs is now outfitted with a cool mist humidifier (no one ever gave a damn about MY nose in the winter!), various play areas in brightly contrasting hues are present on each floor (okay, only half are Nora-specific), and P.J. now consistently drives in the righthand lane.
This was especially amusing given our drive to Cincy this past weekend- Nora’s first roadtrip! Now. I love her Dad more than anything. (Except maybe Nora. And Scott Bakula. These are givens.) But, in the oh-so-recent past, stopping at rest areas was a VERY SERIOUS DECISION. (“Do you HAVE to pee?” “Yes.” “Can you hold it for thirty more exits?” “No.”) And I was allowed one- ONE- pee break in Indiana, perhaps two if gas was really cheap at the Flying J before the Ohio state line. I accepted this. We had to ‘make good time.’ I’m not sure why- we weren’t being timed or anything, and most of the people we were arriving to see would undoubtedly be asleep anyhow- but it was clearly a strong point with P.J. so I let it go. He’s proven uber-effective in other areas (coupons, hairball prevention, turning off lights even before you’ve fully left the room) so maybe he was on to something.
TURNS OUT, maybe he just didn’t love me enough. For. Nora slept most of the way down to Ohio and we prided ourselves on being stellar parents. But she woke up. And we had half an hour left to go. P.J. pulled over in a rest area (we only ever stop at places with a decent Wendy’s) and suggested I get in the back with her.
“She’s lonely.”
I must have looked stunned, because he then suggested that perhaps I should drive and he’d sit in back with her. The only way P.J.’s not in the driver seat is if he’s tied up in the trunk. So I sat in the back. P.J. was still stressed, but I think that ‘making good time’ was the farthest thing from his mind. On the way home she hardly slept AT ALL, alternating between making the saddest faces out the window and screaming like her toes had been chopped off. WE STOPPED FOUR TIMES.
I will let that sink in.
Nora loves loud music and drifts off happily when we sing and dance with her- the latter wasn’t an option, but we sure tried the first. We frantically searched our iTunes library for anything that seemed to make Principesa PurpleFace happy. She quieted down when Bryan Adams’ ‘Everything I Do’ came on (yup) so we sang our hearts out- in exceptional two part harmony, no less- and she dozed off for twenty minutes. Sadly, this is not a Nora-specific occurrence.
The weekend itself was great. Two of Nora’s cousins were being baptized and we dug hanging out with seven of Peej’s sibs and six of the kiddos. Nora had a look of permanently wide-eyed bafflement. (And she didn’t touch the ground for 48 hours. No one loves the bebe.) I did, however, qualify for a Worst Mom award when I almost offed my daughter in a Catholic church.
Yep.
During the baptism, Nora was sleeping soundly in her carseat. I placed her sideways on a pew and sat next to her, watching P.J. wrangle his adorable godson Boden two pews up from us. Ten minutes later, OUT OF NOWHERE, Nora’s carseat fell to the side. I immediately shot a hand out and steadied it (and, truthfully, the seat in front of us would have caught her before she even made a 45 degree dip- it’s a huge carseat.) She didn’t even wake up. HOWEVER, it was a silent moment in the ceremony and the tilting seat made such a God-awful clatter that it made everyone turn, mouths agape, to stare at the bad mother. I joked that I was gonna keep her in her carseat until she was 12.
No one laughed.
(Confidential to my Mom- Yes, I know. I usually don’t. No. Of course I do! She was fine. Yes. MOM. I HAD HER. I promise. I agree. Okay.)
Earlier this week Nora was in the running for a Worst Daughter award- well, to be fair, only for about five minutes. I had my six-week checkup and took her to the doctor’s office- I don’t trust nannies- and she slept really well for most of the visit. However, since they had me waiting in the exam room for almost thirty minutes, she eventually stirred. And then eventually wailed. And as I was clad in a “sheet,” which is code for “large paper towel,” I was powerless to do much except rock her stroller one-handed and murmur useless phrases. It didn’t work. So. I got down from the table and attempted to soothe my kiddo whilst gripping a largish piece of paper around myself. Can you guess when the doctor arrived? Sure, this is a guy who, mere months ago, held my stomach and spleen in his hands. But still. You’ve gotta have standards. I currently do not, but I wish to.
And I think Nora has finally acquired a nickname with sticking power, given to her by one of my nanny fam kiddos. Three year old Jack was looking at Nora with adoration, gently playing with her feet, and said, “She’s so pretty…she looks just like Gordon.”
You know, Gordon? Tall, bald, black man from Sesame Street? Shiny head? Yes. As it was said with such admiration I couldn’t help but feel proud. (Gordon’s kinda awesome.) And besides, Jack pointed to his fluffy-haired baby bro a moment later and referred to him as “Big Bird.”
At least she’s not Slimey.
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