Firstly, let me terrify everyone who may be having a child within the next nine months…
Have you read about the woman who got pregnant WHILST pregnant?
http://gmy.news.yahoo.com/
For serious, this is a bit much. One woman, pregnant- twice- within three weeks. PUT HER HUSBAND IN ANOTHER ROOM, PLEASE! No matter how “rare” the doctors say this may be, *one* case within earshot of my pregnancy is entirely one too many. Pretty much the only perk of the first trimester is that this should NOT happen. (Granted, if you were anything like me, you spent the first three months sobbing into your Italian ice and throwing shoes at anyone who happened to walk into the living room, especially if he was the one who did this awful thing to you. This was before I was deeply in love with my bundle o’ joy, let the record show.) But seriously, this is how the mother of my cats was impregnated, and Bean and Ender (though dearly beloved) are kinda nuts! I wonder if one of the babies this lady is bearing will be a tabby. I guess only if the father is a carrier.
Also, terribly, my first thought upon seeing this clip was how huge the woman looked. Which is awful. Because I’ve pretty much based a blog around the fact that people are so mean (i.e. careless in speech) to pregnant woman and how obese my doctor feels that I am. (However, this woman was wiiiiiide. Maybe she’s carrying an ocelot.)
And now, sadly, it’s my duty to announce the end of Great Expectations. Yep, we graduated. I have no idea what to write about anymore, frankly, since this class inspired a War and Peace-type of prolificacy in me and I have a few weeks of gestation yet to go. Last night was POSTPARTUM ISSUES NIGHT (the night least like Taco Night of them all, I think.)
Apparently, we have to take the baby home eventually. And some women have ISSUES. Like exhaustion, pain, worries and depression. (Aw, junk, that’s how I feel NOW!) Plus, we’ll have the added joy of the imminent Chicago winter. (Who DID this to me?!) And did you know that TERRIBLE THINGS can happen to the baby at ANY time? Basically, the safest thing you can do for your child is to place him or her (on their back, obvie,) in a barren crib, after ONLY feeding from one’s breast (preferably the mother’s), with three industrial-strength fans overhead (for circulating air), completely naked.
And these are the mothers who care too much! Sounds like a healthy dose of neglect would be comfier.
After a circumcision slideshow (which I DEFINITELY do not need to be able to perform, COME ON), and watching all of the terrible things they’re required to do BY LAW to my child (Steroid eyedrops! Vitamin K needles the length and width of Guam!), a “goody bag” of postpartum necessities was passed around the room, one to a person, to ready ourselves for the next discussion. However, as I was busy texting my mother (Hi Mom!), down the street at the Apple store while we Lamazed, I was understandably confused when I was handed a gigantic sanitary pad.
“Thanks,” I said to the nurse.
P.J. gave me a look and I shrugged at him, as if to say, “You wanted a certificate or a medal?” I even put it in my bag. Later, when the nurse mentioned each item and the student held it up for discussion, I understood and sheepishly got it out of my bag to show the class. Sure makes a lot more sense why some guy was holding a bottle of stool softener.
And then she took all the items back. Darn.
But that’s it. We are now child-havin’ experts. Which is good, because according to the way people have been treating me, it could happen at ANY MINUTE. Which would NOT be good, as P.J. is out of town tonight and tomorrow for a super-secret mission on the East coast. (Plus, he desperately wants a Scorpio baby, ever since we received a super cute onesie proclaiming “Scorpio.” A Virgo would not cut the mustard. Or spread it, for that matter. Who gets hard mustard?)
Plus, word on the street is that I’m getting showered with baby this weekend, so it would be nice to actually participate in THAT (as opposed to active labor)…and finally, I can’t have the baby before the end of OCTOBER DATE MONTH. Yep, we’re slowing home renovations (we are so nowhere close to done, but whatever) so that in the month of October we can a) make dinner, b) watch movies, c) go outside and d) sleep entire weekends away. (I think that 24-year old and 29-year old Keely would each be appalled at the other’s idea of a swell date.)
We’re done with travels (for now), finished enjoying the heck out of friends’ and families’ weddings for the year, no more baby showers in far-flung locales such as Cincinnati (although Dorrie’s recent one at the Country Club was posh and superbly catered- I think I had twelve pieces of hors d’ vours that may or may not have been potatoes- and I don’t even like potatoes) and I’m wiiiiinding down the days of nannying. Before nannying again. With a baby. (As I was explaining to various people who say “Oh how easy for you! Taking the baby to work!”, yep, it’ll sure be lovely, but kinda hard. I mean, I’m not a forklift operator, but it’ll still be two full-time jobs AT THE SAME TIME.)
But after eight weeks of “resting” with the baby, I’m sure I’ll be ready for anything. Even finishing the two plays that were due August 1st. Or rediscovering where I left my bottom ribs. (Maybe under the last two banana-nut muffins.) Do not judge. At least I am carrying one, non-catlike baby from a one, non-alley cat father.
And at least I still have my delicately turned, non-swole ankles.
It’s the little things.
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